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Confessions
Of A Tarot Card Skeptic
by
Bob Olson
I
must confess that I as I sit here and write, I can’t help but to ask
myself, “What has become of my life?” Life used to be so simple and
predictable. I knew what was real and what was fantasy. I knew what to
believe and what not to believe. And I was smart enough not to be fooled
by charlatans and schemers claiming to have abilities of supernatural
design. Of course, they were all phonies in my mind, so it was easy to
protect myself from their frauds.
Oh
how I miss those days when I had all the answers. My ignorance was truly
bliss. For today I am confronted with a knowing that is not fit for a man
who grew up on large doses of Charles Bronson, Clint Eastwood and Sly
Stalone. Revenge was the code back then, not love and forgiveness. An eye
for an eye and every man for himself was the macho mentality, not oneness
and peace and helping your neighbor. Life used to be so much easier to
categorize when everything was either black or white. But things aren’t
so simple today. There are gray areas of which I wasn’t aware.
Where
I was once a brave young deer hunter, today I catch insects in my house
and gently place them outside. Rather than shoot my bullets at pheasants
and ducks, I now shoot my camera to capture their beauty. Yes, times are a
changing, and I’ve changed a great deal along with them.
Having
once been a proud skeptic of all things paranormal, today I have spent
three years researching the subject of spirit communication. Those have
been three incredibly enlightening years. Yet I continue to remain
skeptical about certain practices, and until recently, tarot card reading
was one of those practices I refused to swallow. So wouldn’t you know,
as I recently verbalized this skepticism to a friend, a tarot card reader
showed up in my life to confront my disbelief.
“Hey,
I’m open to new possibilities,” I said to my wife, Melissa—although
deep within me I knew I had made up my mind on this subject. “Why not,
I’m going to give it a try,” I told her. If for no other reason, I
felt I owed it to myself to at least rule tarot out as a legitimate source
for spiritual guidance. Melissa said she felt bad for Caera, the tarot
reader I was going to put to the test. But I warned Caera that I held some
doubts in this area, and she was unaffected by my admission. She told me
that she trusts in the cards and her guides who assist her. So we began
the reading.
I
told Caera that I had never had a tarot reading before, but I later
remembered that I’ve had a couple. Both were as phony as a bad toupee,
so I now realize why I’ve always considered the craft a mere parlor
trick. To me, tarot readers were psychic wanna-bes who used the cards as a
substitute for a genuine gift. So you can imagine my surprise when
Caera’s first few words were dead-on accurate.
Using
a Celtic tarot deck known as the Arthurian
Legend, Caera gave me a reading that revealed the inner details
of my higher guides, my inner guide, my past, my near future, my abilities
and strengths, my current influences, my hopes and fears, and the final
outcome of my current issues. Even more incredible than the accuracy of
what she told me is the fact that every card’s messages revealed exactly
the same messages given to me by three different psychic mediums, two
different astrologers and one palm reader. I have written about this
uncanny coincidence when I got the palm reading, but this did not lighten
the impact it had on me this time.
Only
a few years ago, I would have accused anyone telling me this same story of
being a naïve believer. But having experienced Caera’s reading myself,
and knowing that I did not fit square-pegged generalities into the
round-holed details of my life, I stand corrected in my past skepticism of
tarot cards.
What
I find most convincing is that not one of the practitioners I have
seen—the three mediums, the two astrologers, the palm reader or Caera—beat
around the bush while throwing out possible insights as bait and waiting
for me to bite. No, each practitioner jumped quickly to the point. Bam!
This is your story. Bam! This is your past. Bam! This is your future.
Caera even read my cards over the phone, never giving her the luxury of
reading my facial expressions or body language along with the cards.
Caera
slam-dunked message after message about the private elements of my life.
Her style for interpreting the cards was simple to understand and
interesting to hear. With each card she turned, Caera told me the story of
King Arthur and his knights that was depicted on the individual card.
These stories served to further explain her interpretation and improve my
memory of the reading. Nothing improves memory retention like a good story
to nail down the message.
Caera
initially invited me to think of a question or issue to which I sought
answers; but I chose to trust in Spirit, allowing what was supposed to
come through to find its way without my controlling it. This proved to be
a good choice, as the most important issues of my life were identified and
given insight. I must say that I was surprised that Caera streamlined
directly to these issues, because she could have concentrated on so many
other areas including my health, relationships and overall emotional
well-being. But I wasn’t dealing with issues in any of these areas; I
had one thing on my mind and Caera addressed it with every card.
“How
did you know to address this one area of my life?” I asked Caera. Caera
said she simply reads the cards; it is up to one’s individual beliefs to
determine how or why the cards fall the way they do.
“Then
what happens when you do two different spreads for the same person? You
must get two completely different readings, right?” I asked.
“No,”
Caera said, “I usually get the same cards. It’s even hard for me to
believe sometimes, but the same issue or issues repeat if readings are
done more than once in a short period of time.”
Interestingly,
the same is true for psychic mediums, astrologers and even palm readers.
Go to two different practitioners and you will still get similar readings
if the practitioners are both skilled and/or gifted. If there is an issue
you need to deal with in your life, it’s going to show up until you deal
with it. As much as we might wish we could, we can’t just ignore the
messages we are given and go to another practitioner for better messages.
If we go to genuinely gifted and reputable practitioners, we simply cannot
hide from the Universal wisdom these ancient tools or spiritual gifts
provide us.
Tarot
readings were last in line in my hierarchy of practices to endorse. Yet I
must humbly admit to you that my experience with Caera has opened my eyes
to the legitimacy of tarot readings, although I still feel a little
embarrassed to admit it. However, based on my three years of research and
experience with spiritual phenomena, Caera has provided me with enough
evidence to conclude that tarot is a justifiable source for guidance and
insight. For all you nay-sayers out there, I’m here to encourage you to
experience this for yourself.
I
now know that the reason I had lousy readings in the past was because I
went to lousy tarot readers. Anyone with five bucks in their pocket can
buy a tarot deck. Not anyone can read tarot cards with the skill and
accuracy of practitioners like Caera. Hence, if you are curious enough to
discover what tarot cards can reveal to you, I strongly urge you to use
care in choosing a tarot reader with a good reputation.
I
also believe that a certain amount of psychic ability is necessary to
accurately interpret tarot cards. Each card can be interpreted several
ways, and the practitioner determines which interpretation he or she will
make. Caera’s psychic instincts were excellent. Several times she told
me that a card could mean two or three different things, and then she gave
me her interpretation based on the psychic insight she was getting from
her guides. While this might sound over-the-top for some people, she
always chose the only meaning that could possibly fit my life. Maybe she
was just lucky; but it happened several times throughout my reading. If
she is that lucky, she should put down her tarot cards and take up
Blackjack.
Being
the editor of a holistic magazine has its perks, the greatest being that I
get to test practitioners for any given practice, even if I am skeptical
about its legitimacy. This is often how I am led to discovering
practitioners like Caera whom I write about. I have been to genuine
mediums and phony mediums, gifted astrologers and not-so-gifted
astrologers, and legitimate tarot readers and lacking tarot readers. I
have put this tarot reader to the test, and she scored brilliantly while
opening my mind to the potential and value of tarot readings. I recommend
that anyone interested give it a try and see for yourself what
possibilities tarot offers for guidance, insight and entertainment.
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Bob
Olson is a former
private investigator and skeptic who began using his investigation skills
to research psychics, mediums and the afterlife in 1999. This research led
him to establish OfSpirit.com
Magazine (2000), BestPsychicMediums.com
(2001) and BestPsychicDirectory.com
(2007), three of the most trusted and influential sources for
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Bob Olson has tested hundreds of psychics and mediums around the world and
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documentary producers, journalists, book publishers, event promoters, as
well as law enforcement agencies and private investigators. Bob’s
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allowed him to evaluate and isolate the key components that set apart the
best psychic medium readings from the mediocre—leading him to create his
famous (although secret) 15-point test.
Bob
has documented his findings in a multitude of articles. He has authored
the Forewords for three books: The Complete Idiot's Guide To
Communicating With Spirits, Consult Your Inner Psychic and The
Complete Idiot's Guide To Divining The Future. Bob has also been
quoted as an expert in How To Get A Good Reading By A Psychic Medium
and Empowering Your Life With Angels. He is also the author of Win
The Battle and How To Beat Depression.
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Grief
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BOB OLSON is a former
skeptic and private investigator who has researched evidence
of life after death for approximately five years. He now
shares the spiritual insights, extraordinary experiences and
gifted individuals he has met along his journey in order to
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Founder: OfSpirit.com Magazine
Founder:
BestPsychicMediums.com
Founder:
GriefAndBelief.com
Author:
Understanding
Spirit,
Understanding Yourself (August 2003)
Author: Win
The Battle (Jan. 1999)
Foreword writer:
The
Complete
Idiot's Guide To Communicating With
Spirits
Foreword writer:
The
Complete
Idiot's Guide To Divining The Future
Featured in:
How
To Get A Good
Reading From A Psychic Medium
Writer:
Internet
& Magazine articles
Lecturer, Speaker,
Workshops:
The Grief And Belief Connection,
Spirit/Automatic Writing, Journaling
Through Grief,
Understanding The
Afterlife
Interviewer:
Authors, experts and
extraordinary people in the
spiritual,
holistic and self-improvement fields.
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