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Is It
Wrong To Pray For Perfection In Our Lives?
by
Bob Olson
Is it wrong to pray for
perfection in our lives? I keep asking myself this question and life keeps
handing me the same answer: It’s okay to pray for perfection, but it’s
more empowering to “trust” that there is some Higher Power
orchestrating life; and whether we know it or not, life already IS
perfect.
That
sounds like a nice concept when the forecast regarding my health,
relationships and career is sunny and warm; but when it feels as though a
dark cloud is following me around, it becomes difficult to envision
“perfection” in God’s plan. So sometimes I begin to question if this
Bush-Gore election fiasco, or some world crisis, is taking all of God’s
time and He doesn’t have any left to focus on little old me. Certainly
Presidents and celebrities must come first in God’s hierarchy of
attention. Or maybe the world has become so overpopulated that God's
simply overburdened, and instead of striving for "perfection,"
He now just aims at "good enough."
Last week
my sister-in-law’s cat disappeared for a few days. Now this is a big
crisis in my wife, Melissa's, side of the family—these people love
their cats. I keep hoping that my next life be will as a cat belonging to
her side of the family. Anyway, Melissa asked me to pray for the cat to
come home. To tell you the truth, I hated to use up a good prayer on a cat
that was probably being pampered and fed by some sweet neighbor; but I
prayed just the same—Melissa doesn’t ask me for much, and I know I
used one of her prayers when I thought there was an oil leak in my car. So
I got into a meditative state and did some serious praying.
The most
amazing thing happened while I prayed to God to bring the cat home—I
think I got reprimanded! The message that adamantly filled my mind was
this: “Bob, do you think that I don’t know what I’m doing? Do you
really think that this missing cat is just some random meaningless
occurrence? Or is it possible that there is a lesson in this for your
sister-in-law or nieces, perhaps in preparation for some greater loss?”
The
message went on for a bit longer, but that was the gist of it. When I
stopped praying, I kind of felt bad for my obvious lack of faith. I guess
I need to believe that life is exactly as it is supposed to be. I need to
trust that it's perfect even if I don't see the meaning behind it all.
As
expected, the cat was found the next day. A nearby neighbor was pampering
and feeding it while assuming the cat was lost and homeless. Go figure.
Now I’m one prayer short but a whole lot wiser. My only regret is not
asking about that knocking sound in my wheel while I still had God on the
line. Maybe I'll ask Melissa to pray for the knocking to stop.
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Bob
Olson is a former
private investigator and skeptic who began using his investigation skills
to research psychics, mediums and the afterlife in 1999. This research led
him to establish OfSpirit.com
Magazine (2000), BestPsychicMediums.com
(2001) and BestPsychicDirectory.com
(2007), three of the most trusted and influential sources for
understanding and locating trustworthy psychics and mediums.
Today
Bob Olson has tested hundreds of psychics and mediums around the world and
has become a leading authority on the subject with TV, movie and
documentary producers, journalists, book publishers, event promoters, as
well as law enforcement agencies and private investigators. Bob’s
achievements in psychic and medium investigation and testing has further
allowed him to evaluate and isolate the key components that set apart the
best psychic medium readings from the mediocre—leading him to create his
famous (although secret) 15-point test.
Bob
has documented his findings in a multitude of articles. He has authored
the Forewords for three books: The Complete Idiot's Guide To
Communicating With Spirits, Consult Your Inner Psychic and The
Complete Idiot's Guide To Divining The Future. Bob has also been
quoted as an expert in How To Get A Good Reading By A Psychic Medium
and Empowering Your Life With Angels. He is also the author of Win
The Battle and How To Beat Depression.
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Grief
& Afterlife
Author, Lecturer
& Investigator |
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BOB OLSON is a former
skeptic and private investigator who has researched evidence
of life after death for approximately five years. He now
shares the spiritual insights, extraordinary experiences and
gifted individuals he has met along his journey in order to
bring hope, comfort and peace to the grieving. |
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| Bob Olson's Background |
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Founder:
OfSpirit.com Magazine
Founder:
BestPsychicMediums.com
Founder:
GriefAndBelief.com
Author:
Understanding
Spirit,
Understanding Yourself (August 2003)
Author: Win
The Battle (Jan. 1999)
Foreword writer:
The
Complete
Idiot's Guide To Communicating With
Spirits
Foreword writer:
The
Complete
Idiot's Guide To Divining The Future
Featured in:
How
To Get A Good
Reading From A Psychic Medium
Writer: Writer
Of Over 50 Internet
& Magazine Articles
Lecturer, Speaker,
Workshops:
The Grief And Belief Connection,
Spirit/Automatic Writing, Journaling
Through Grief,
Understanding The
Afterlife
Interviewer:
Authors, experts and
extraordinary people in the
spiritual,
holistic and self-improvement fields.
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RESOURCE WEBSITES: Check out the links
page for excellent resources on grief healing and life after death.
ARTICLES:
Our articles page offers articles by Bob Olson on The
Grief And Belief Connection, life after death, spirits,
the spirit world, spirit communication, past-life
regression, spiritual meditation, near-death experience
and more.
RECOMMENDED
BOOKS: This page lists Bob Olson's favorite books on
Belief (life after death, past lives, spirits) and Grief
(bereavement, funerals and mourning).
CONTACT PAGE: Wish to Contact Bob Olson for an interview,
speaking engagement or private consultation? This page
provides the telephone, email and address information you
need.
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